Your posts sound so positive MB! I'm glad to finally get a chance to catch up and see how things are going and what you are feeling. Going back a month or so to something you said in a post, I am kind of feeling that same feeling of disgust when I think of my XH....like what the crap was I thinking? I see where I am now and know that while I loved him and didn't want D, it was really the greatest gift he ever gave me. It set me on a path that has allowed me to find a freedom and happiness that I likely never would've found with him.

I really enjoy your posts about NG. It sounds like he's really treating you well and you so deserve that! I'm so happy for you and look forward to more positive updates from you. Happiness looks good on you, MB!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids