I also agree...do not sign any documents, i.e., contract on a house at this time. I would seriously think about getting my own place and if he wants to date you, that would be up to you, but under no circumstances would I sign nything "jointly" w/your h at this time.
Do not have any more relationship talks w/him. It's not working and the more you have them, the more frustrated both of you get. Table those discussions for now. Keep the conversations on the children and finances, etc., i.e., keep to neutral subjects.
As for dating, age is just a number. Many of us have divorced and are dating again and it might just surprise you...but the second time around, many of the relationships are even better...so please don't worry about your age when it comes to dating.
Good luck tomorrow!
Go see the lawyer, address all of your concerns, i.e., RosaLinda has given you some good talking points, but you can add additional points to it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
