HI dearest Sotto. Sweetie, this all makes perfect sense, doesn't it? And there's also one aspect you haven't mentioned, which is grieving the dream: the life long commitment dream. You know?

Just remember to breathe honey and if there's something you need to say to XH, write it down so you can get it out!

I need to jet to bring pup to the vet, but will check in later xoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver