My little slice of Life 2

[Tofbrks]

You are totally right Sandi, and some small part of me still wishes to R but knows it can't happen right now or anytime in the near future.
My sister took the txt's that my daughter found and posted them to my mil fb page. They were up for about 15min before my wife was alerted an they took them off. I was not really planning on telling mil FIL , at least not now or in that way. My sis also posted to her fb at friended the om wife. She saw and cntacted me. The om and wife had already sep and had signed. The more we compared dates and times the more upset she became. This was in the works far before she had imagined. I let with her on Tuesday and we discussed things for 3hrs ... At om/wife house .. Which was weird in itself

After speaking with her some conclusions
My W used my D13 and her relationship with om son to have access to om -unknowingly
She maintained this relationship with control thru my D13 - instructing her
Om / wife and I at some point where concerned about the level of this relationship
W always had contact with om son through snapchat txt and phone
When daughter decided to break it off of her own choice W got very upset
W engineered plan to get D13 and om son back together - succeeded
This allowed W access to om - under the relationship umbrella
Om /wife marriage at this point was shaky and don't know if it was actually talked about
Om and my W say they started "talking" in early March

Into current day when new info came out. I knew my W and om were friends in hs come to find out my W had sex with this looser in hs. She left this part out when suggesting that our D13 go out with his son. Knowing we would have to interact with them. Something I would have said no to if I had known.

Other comments have surfaced from the meeting of m wife and I. Seems my W was jealous of om/w lifestyle and she told his w so.

So just my conclusions here ... Don't know if it started out with this intent but it is highly likely. She used the son to gain access to om. Redevelop friendship
Once she saw weakness in their marriage she capitalized on it.. Not sure if he may have disclosed this fact way before om wife disclosed to my W as they were also friends.
The BD for me and sep date for them align...collusion
She saw a way out of our marriage on to someone who could give her all the material things she ever wanted. No more struggling and being broke. She already had control over om and they were planning on all living together in om house. During this time my W as given me a canned sep agreement but asking for no support. This was strange because she offered to share some bills while we shared house to keep kids in one place. Claiming to use this year of sep to get $ straight so she could live on her own. She could barely pay before , now taking on more ... Where is the "in order " coming from?
Well she didn't need to worry about $ ... She was moving on to om with $

The om wife , after reading those txt , rescinded her offer to leave om their house. And added her children where to go no where near my W. She is now asking for support were before she had not.

So it's a royal f'n mess .. Finding out my wife manipulated so many people - even her own D13 to get to this point... is very dishsrtening ... All for objects

My wife has since moved out and my lawyer has her agreement is changing several things to make it work. We share kids week / week.

So I think my wife had engineered this plan and was hoping to just transition into this new life and make it all look like if naturally occurred. Well I threw a monkey wrench into that whole sitch. Om friends even say she's in it for the $ . The guy doesn't believe in God hates church and thinks my bil is an a$$hole , drinks heavily , over weight , my mil hates him ... But they are in luv.. And they make each other happy...wtf

Would like to see this crash and burn for obvious reasons ... What do you guys think?
I don't see how I could ever go back myself knowing what I know now.