Hi Rouky, I have no interaction with XH at all! And I think we all have different things to offer. The very fact that you are accepting and moving on - something that is hard to do - can be learned from.

It is a good realisation that even H deserves to be happy. I am trying to come to a point of balance when I look back at our M. Much of it was good. I didn't like the ending, but I accept that anyone can choose not to be with someone any longer and I try not to hold on to the hurts caused by the ending.

I'm glad you have some nice activities arranged. This is a good time to discover/rediscover those things that Rouky enjoys.

Take care my friend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus