Tom, you can't see the future, so you never know what it will bring. Regardless, you couldn't rebuild your marriage on a foundation of rubble. So clear it away. Starting all over can be scary, thrilling and nerve-wracking all at once. I found that I felt I was dropped right back in my 20's before I got married. So much seemed possible then. The difference now is that I still have two kids at home. I just have to figure out a new way to make everything possible again

This can happen with you too. Take it slow and everything will fall into place.
Big hugs. kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory