I too decided to take off my ring after about a month post BD. I have not put it on since, with the exception of 2 family events that we have attended together. We have not said anythning to friends, family our or kids yet, but I have made it clear to my WW that I can't wear my ring becuase it's basically a lie at this point, as long as the A conntinues.
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)