Progress is slow but does happen!

[PacLove]

LOL my wife is more or less out but does spend the odd night in the guest bedroom and still keeps her Wardrobe here. But I too feel like we are both taking advantage of the situation. On my nights without D I get out and do fun things. I have the house mainly to myself and still manage most of the $. I also have 70% custody of D although that also comes with all the responsibilities of getting her off to school, making sure she's fed etc. If we were to Divorce I'd likely have to give up the family home and custody would shift to 50/50. To say we are in a pickle would be an understatement as we both seem to have mostly what we want right now except each other.