all I can say is be as tough as possible to get an agreement that you would settle for if this becomes permanent

the reason being is negotiation is unlikely to become easier as time passes, and it also shows her exactly what a D looks like.

My W is currently pissed with me since I am "punishing" her and not "being friends" around sharing kids etc. I'm simply letting her know exactly what it will be like and she don't like it!!!

It also makes things much easier for you to detach and not become reactive to all the things she is doing or saying - you have a blast without her in your parenting time, and you GAL like crazy in her time!

Good luck

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted