She didn't say directly, but she did say she was worried she would lose me the entire time, if she didn't wise up soon! I still don't know what changed things for her, but it happened while she was on vacation with ow. And just before they left I thought I blew it when I insisted she tell me if she was done with me or not "because I need to make some decisions about my future." I thought it was over, because it was NOT good DB technique at all. I was not cool, calm and collected, I was desperate and frightened. But it shook her up. A week later, while still on vacay, she texted that she wanted to talk about us and would I be willing. I somehow knew it was going to be about reconciliation or I would have panicked. I also had the benefit of knowing through a mutual friend that W was trying to come back to me, and knew it was the right thing and the thing that would make her most happy... but she had to do it on her own timeline. I found out later that that apparently meant they had to go on the #^^@! vacation they had planned. I could have been really angry about that, but it turns out that all that time with ow made her realize I was the better choice.
Yeah, it stinks to be a choice, but at least she made the right one.
And don't worry about the texting having fizzled somewhat. It gives her something to think about. Let her wonder what you are up to. Be strong and always look your best if she might see you. That's what I tried to do.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
