I didn't even realize how much time had gone by!
I was thinking things were going well so I kind of fell off the detachment a bit. I'm back to reality and see that she is rebelling even more now that I confronted her about being "too friendly" with our male friend. I am detached more than I have ever been. I was continuing to go out with her and hang out with our friends, but that has stopped. I'm going as dark as possible (being in the same house makes this difficult obviously), but still treating her kindly as a friend would.