It is her way of keeping you as her backup plan. And yes, it is "cake eating". It is my argument about in-house separation and why it doesn't work. B/C it is MAJOR cake eating for the WW.
I was going to post this on my own thread but I thought a minor hi-jack would be OK.
I am in an in-house separation as well. I've just realized that even though I'm the LBH that I'm cake-eating too. I have the marital home and all the family resources too. I can pretend to the world that everything is fine and not have to explain myself. I even have the better part of the deal. I have the MBR and can hold my head high without guilt. I too am reluctant to drop the rope and leave / boot my W out out of fear of losing my connection to my own Plan A and of the turmoil and discomfort that would result. I can even delay this indefinitely while everything spins around the drain.
Hmmmm.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
