I've kept my ring on despite the fact she has not been wearing hers regularly since last July and has been completely off since separation.

For me it's a reminder not to stray myself and a sign of my commitment to her and to the M. If things change and she files for D or moves to a more permanent home or in with him I may reconsider but for now it stays on. As for kids I let my W field that one as it was not a mutual decision and I want my D to know that I value the relationship and am not giving up. What lesson does that teach them?

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17