Great advice man. My WW never spoke down to me, its where I failed in the 180's every time. She would cry for help and boom. I decided to stop that, and haven't done it again, but its only been one week. Part of my confusion leading to my post today about whether to put a line in the sand or not. Its been one of the harder days for me, but I'm really glad I came here to talk instead of just gut reacting - which I know goes against the DB program. I also began a prescription for my ADHD last week and in between does is when I really get quite unsure of myself. This is where I was earlier. None of this is like me in real life. I am a confident, assertive, successful man. But in my head, my WW sitch rises and falls, just like Sandi2 predicted in one of her threads. Fortunately, I have never begged of my WW, or cried on her, or why don't you love me. I have however spoken that with actions like fixing the shower and repairing her car. If I learned anything today - that ain't right and I am done with it.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
