Re-reading your post to be sure I answer all the questions.
No, I have not finished the DB in entirety. I have read chapters 4-9 and am going back to 1-3 and 10.
Yes, I have ordered Divorce Remedy and it should arrive today.
Yes, I have worked my way through Cadets homework and will now go back to make sure I have covered all of it tonight since you asked and I want to be sure.
No, I do not believe divorce is the answer or the consequence I desire. Yes, I believe what you wrote about a WW in your two large posts which were part of the homework. I admit confusion to some aspects and I admit to asking the wrong questions earlier - I put the cart before the horse it seems. As I found this site and these books this deep into my sitch, I am unclear about how to impress consequence without such an action as telling her I know she is still lying vs keeping the 180's moving forward and following the contact rules contained therein. The 180's remain the consequence I suppose.
I believe both of you so far in that telling her will not make a difference to her and that she will continue the affair regardless.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
