Damn. I'm in an open marriage. I never said it out loud. I never thought of it like that until I just read it.
$ucks don't it? Me too. That's why boundaries, and most importantly their enforcement, are essential. I'm not going to sit here and tell you how easy it is, because I'm taking baby steps. What I CAN tell you is when I've been able to show consequences for her stepping over those boundaries, there have been positive results.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
