I swear, you are in exactly the same situation I was in. It's like that Seinfeld episode where they all find people exactly like them living parallel lives. (I never watched Seinfeld, just heard about it.) I wish we could talk.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
