My IC expects me to be super nice, helpful, all around great guy for the xW.
Maybe you need to find another IC.
Where i am from there arnt any choices. Hes the only i know of in my whole state.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
