Summer holidays approaching and preparing myself mentally for this 'I am with you, but ready to leave soon' approach.
Talked to some close friends that confined to me that STBX wife talked to them about how happy she is, and that she is leaving me, and that I will buy her place to live, and that I am so stupid and basically can't do anything in life except earn lots of money. Friend was so bedazzled, but still did not talk to me until recently because she thought that it must be all over by now.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room