Knowing we have been separated for 5 months. Knowing that she told me she had stopped the affair, but wished to "remain in her own space to figure things out". Knowing that I found out 2 weeks ago the affair continues and she had been lying to me. Knowing that my plan was to keep reading the books, keep doing the 180, keep DB'ing and changing my approach. Knowing that I am not holding up well psychologically to pretending I am still in the dark.
This is my direct question: What is a good course for me to follow? Should I tell her I know about the affair still and am not willing to tolerate the lies - she will deny, angry, lie all over again. Or do I keep GAL with this knowledge and hope for the best (I don't like this option much, but I feel like from the reading that this is what it indicates).
Beat me up, ask me questions, whatever, I want to tell her I know, and I want to do so in a way that also tells her I am still open to the marriage, but it can't happen with him around...and this will be the second time I've had to say that.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
