What a busy day you had! This meltdown has been brewing for quite some time and he had to get "very angry" in order to confront his brother. Things should operate much better w/the BIL gone...but don't be surprised to discover some things that your BIL may have done while there in the last two years. You and your h have no idea to what extent he's been playing things behind the scene. I do hope that I'm wrong about this. I'm glad that man is gone and you now have someone else to work with.
Today, hopefully, will be a better day for all of you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
