I hear you on the exhaustion! Right now I am working all day and coming home and solo parenting for a 5 yo a 3 yo and a 5 mo. Even my hair feels tired, lol. But just think of it like this, look at what we are accomplishing! We are freaking super women! If your H is still in an affair with someone then MC is not effective. At this point you must decide what your boundaries are and how to enforce them if your H crosses them.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3