The start of something... new (again)

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betterm,

I think my EX-WW always had them. They didn't manifest at first. We did date/court for about 2 years, but got married quickly - 10 months after I proposed. The fireworks started 3 weeks in after we moved intogether. We didn't live together until the day we were married. People make that an excuse to live together before marriage; I still think waiting is the right thing to do. She just had issues with me, and how I did things around the house. She freely admitted our relationship was a 'one way street - her way or else'. I asked it to be a two way street, and she would just laugh - if you want to stay married to me, you have to do it my way!

WRONG.

I tried. and of course failed. I gave up. I try again and failed. After the BD, I became super-dad... lol, she even said I was. You can't make someone who expects perfection from their mate to ever be happy. She always asked to 'not judge her', but would then in turn judge people at every turn. Her one-way street.

She's still going to church, but she says God is 'cool' with her... of course, God forgives. But the second part is to live a life for Christ. She likes to pick and choose what she wants to do for Christ, and ignore the rest.