In the end do I really want to know if he's there? I could do it discretely but that would cause me more pain, if I put them up and tell her (so she doesn't bring OM around) that will only piss her off more.
I don't mean to be rude... but... So What? Maybe being a little pissed off is exactly what she needs... I hate to say it, but the attitude of "I don't want to piss her off" is not going to work when you are dealing with a WW that doesn't give a rip about your feelings right now.
I started this site, my "DB'ing" frightened at every choice, every word, every option, because I thought each one was going to be the "make or break" moment... and in reality, it's not.
You need to do what's right for you. The fact you WANTED security cameras before this, but only didn't put them up because she's didn't want you to, now's the time to do it... she left you. That's YOUR HOUSE now, and you don't need her help for JACK SQUAT anymore. remember that. engrave it across the front of your forehead (backwards i guess)... you have to make choices for yourself now.
