Progress is slow but does happen!

[PacLove]

betterm - TBH I don't know as if we ever talked about it - I think she just assumed she'd stay there while I was away and equally I assumed she'd take care of the dog. Perhaps part of our longstanding issues of non-communication and assumptions of each other.

I know if brought it up this late in the day it would certainly send her in a tivy...

As for the cameras - funny story I've been wanting to buy them for years but she was always against it. I finally bought some last fall on sale to which she vehemently objected and wanted me to return them - obvious now why... they still sit in a box in the garage part of me wants to install them, part of me thinks it will push her further away as if I'm spying on her again.

In the end do I really want to know if he's there? I could do it discretely but that would cause me more pain, if I put them up and tell her (so she doesn't bring OM around) that will only piss her off more.

I found out earlier this week by accident that she was at his place first thing after being away with D and it was a major setback. Had a rough day!