So interesting situation coming up - I'm heading out of town for a week with D and W will be staying in the house to watch over the Dog. I shutter to think that she will occasionally have OM visit/stay.
I've thought of setting up WebCam - but she would see that as me watching her. I've thought of laying out boundaries and say it's not appropriate for OM to be in our home but again that would be bringing up the A.
The other side of me is just ignore it and if it happens it happens, she'll do what she wants anyways and anything I try and do to control her would not go over well...
I could off-course tell her she can't stay at the home but then I need to make arrangements for the Dog - and there is some cost savings in having her stay there (since she still pays into the mortgage and I help her with her accommodations which she'll save that week)
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17