Ha! Yeah it's true, I totally missed that! I did interrupt her while "communicating".Oye! I will try validating next time. Yeah in regards to the financial support there is no benefit for me in doing so, other than following my word (she was really upset one day and in my effort to fix it all I told her I would help with rent), that's why I tried to give her as little $ as possible. I will try and minimize my contact with her. Thanks for both the 2x4 and the perspective SH! You are a Godsend my friend!