kml and mirage, you both are great. Yes, living a good life is the ultimate revenge.

As I think more about why I am now feeling so much anger towards W, I think it also is b/c everything right now is so much out of my control. I have the divorce papers here, and all they need is my signature.

Also, d21 moved in with W, and d21 is supposed to be in MY corner. 2 years ago when d21 was living with me, she did not even acknowledge W on Mother's Day. Yes, d21 is moving on with her life, and allowing a better relationship with W/her Mom. It seems everyone is doing better, but me.

Oh and sure. My last post I was kinda hoping to see a little "Wrath of God" against W and om. Sure enough, earlier today W was in a car accident. shocked She is ok, but "her whole body hurts". How did I become so uncaring, as I feel nothing about W being hurt so bad? confused

I think I will go back to Divorce Care tomorrow night, try to find some healing for myself, and see if there is anyone in the group who needs my help.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace