Originally Posted By: JujuB

I don't know how it could have been handled differently. And I am afraid of next spouse not wanting to spend time with me either.


Oh, this made me tear up... ((((JujuB)))) If they only knew how much they've hurt us. I went through the very same thing.

There are many, many people who remarry happily. I truly believe that those of us here, who introspect, grow and develop, review our history and think about what we can do differently, maybe see an IC, stand a much, much better chance to find happiness than the average person.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17