Wife wants to "move on"

[J5K]

Clay,

I am sorry you still have to deal with such behavior and attitude from xW even after the D. For some, the selfishness never stops.

I think I am going to be in the same situation as you. Just posted on my thread my STBXs rants for today. She was a SAHM and thinks that is her job the rest of her life.

You need to protect yourself and do what you feel is right for you and your kids no matter what she feels.

I also have a difficult time control how my family acts with my STBX. They did not get along and in some way contributed to the tension in my M, no matter how much I supported my STBX back then. I completely detached from my family and in the end I am on the D train.

Hang in there my friend.