During the conversation she alluded to us never being good at communicating. I interrupted her and told her that she can live in the past if she wants but that we are communicating.
Forgive me for chuckling at this. I hope you can see the humor in these 2 sentences. She alludes to you 2 not being good at communicating........ You interrupt her?
Kinda funny. Can you see why?.....and on a serious note, try validating her when she shares thoughts or concerns about communication.
And my dear friend, when it comes to the agreement for financial support, hopefully you are learning there is little benefit in doing this, but if you are going to be a nice guy and do it, maybe a written agreement would be in order? Then she can't get mad or claim you said one thing and then did another. Just a thought as I know you have tripped several times being the nice guy to have it blow up in your face. Remember, she left you, correct? Is helping her financialy, benefiting you? Benefitting her? Increasing potential chances of R of the MR? What is the goal here?
Just some food for thought to chew on. I'm glad to hear you had a positive interaction with her, but I have seen enough of those in this community and then it all blows up. You have experienced this as well right?
I'm here to support you, but this deserves a little tap on the old noggin with a 2x4 my DB friend. Stay frosty out there. It is a mine field you are walking through.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
