just to be sure I'm interpreting your tone correctly, being the guy who comes to help her with the kids during the week or the platonic guy friend that her kids love to play with is a good thing. Yes?
M: Late 30s W:Late 30s S: 4 D:2
Known: 19 Together:8 Married:5
ILYINILWY: 8/2015 EA: Confirmed 9/2015, Started 8/2015? PA: No evidence, W Denies D: Planned for Spring 2016