I hear ya brother! I have jacked up many a text with spell check! I clarified that I will help when I can maybe $50 to $100, that I am helping with rent (as I paid all of it for July) and that she chose this and is going to have to make a budget, I also told her that I never really felt like she appreciated anything I did. She said that she was really angry when she wrote the text messages and she feels bad having written them now, she said she can't see herself arguing with me that way, it makes her really upset, she said she thought that she would be getting more help with the rent and that she does appreciate me. During the conversation she alluded to us never being good at communicating. I interrupted her and told her that she can live in the past if she wants but that we are communicating. So she knows that I am not going to be there to catch her and as hard as it will be I need to follow through.
