A total bust in DBing world, but what I need to maintain my self-respect
I don't post often, but caught your post. From my perspective, I'd say you may have missed the part about DB and MLC and how that works. I'd also venture that you have a boundary and you made it clear. You need to stick to it, come hell or high water, just so you know. You can't go back and forth; that'd be worse than anything.
Cut yourself some slack, 2. You are going through tough times and if not tolerating being lied to is the worst thing you do? Well, that's totally the right call as far as I'm concerned.
Just be aware that him lying is definitely part of the process. So is your getting to a point where you don't accept it. If anything, DB is about YOU and what you will or will not accept. The difference is that you have a goal and are working toward that. But you have two people to deal with - you and him. He makes irrational choices and you do the best you can to adapt. To a point. There are going to be some things that are more than you'll accept and that's OK.
Cut yourself some slack and shrug it off. Like in sports, yesterday is yesterday - what have you done here and now?
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
