Oh yeah, I'm going through boxes and saw something reminded me of something else she said 3-4 days ago... in one of those "good" conversations we were sarcastically joking and laughing about how the cost of our wedding and how looking back it probably wasn't the best thing for us, or our families...
but we were just hanging out, and smiling together and I said "it was a pretty kicka$$ wedding though, totally worth it, I just can't believe we paid $X for the videographer and then never had him put a song to the video... (it was not cheap, at all...) The wedding was flat out awesome, but it's a shame we never even got that completed for the people to see before this.
She said "yeah... we should pick out a song and have them finalize it for us... you never know what's going to happen in the future, we might get back together and it'll be something we have shared and look back on... or even if we don't, it's still good memories of our friends and families"... I'm so glad I'm not judging every action and word she says anymore or I'd be an absolute mess...