Originally Posted By: hawker
NY Gal,

I forgot how long you went through your separation??


I got the ILYBINILWY on November 4th of last year. On November 3 I would have said, oh, we're fine -- a little distant, but no, she would never leave me! It went from EA to PA at some point between there and New Years Eve when they were together in a hotel -- how can I ever forget that? Grrrrr....

I was told on January 1st that I had to move out in two weeks. And so I did. Then in April she asked if we could talk -- specifically about our R. And that was the beginning of our reconciliation.

During that time of our separation we communicated on occasion. Maybe the longest dry spell was 10 days or something, maybe longer. It was hell.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat