Not sure what to do

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I've been reading DB all day (came in mail today)and going back to this chatroom. I see a lot of recommendations for DR book. Is one really better than the other, can I get it done with DB? Obviously after being separated for 5 months and just finding out she did not end the affair like she said I am feeling time is not on my side. That is a feeling, I am thinking I will hear the contrary here. Thank you all in advance.