I have been having a lot of trouble reading the stories on these boards. The betrayal, and deceit, and entitlement and selfishness really disturbs me. I am coming on less and less.
Here is my honest thoughts about being the light house... I am not a f' ing innanimate object. I am a person with feelings. Someone that is capable of breaking vows, and lying, and cheating, and hoarding money should have consequences. Not someone waiting patiently on the sides for them to come around and see the light.
Love for children is unconditional. Love for your partner is not. I am not articulate enough to express why.
My husband had a different set of conditions then I did. Mine were spelled out. His were not.
