I put my story in another thread last week. The DB book should be here today in the mail. Wife and I separated in Feb 16 (really April to separate locations). She told me the affair ended in June. Discovered it had not in early July. Feeling like I have two choices...read the book, begin DB right away. And the other choice, confront her now and start distancing. I'm not looking for an answer, just having a tough day in a span of many.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6