i haven't spoken to her in 2 weeks, other than to say what time i'm dropping off the kids. and when i drop them off, or pick them up, i don't even get out of my vehicle.

I am so unbelievably hurt by her actions. I don't want to see her, talk to her, or listen to her. I don't wish any bad to happen to her, but i don't wish her and good either.

as far as im concerned, it's over. she would have to make a full 100% change in her life, and keep that change for several months if not years. she has a problem. some people have problems with booze, or drugs or gambling. her problem is the addiction to attention from men. the more the merrier. and im not willing to deal with that.