Hey SR, I would agree that looking at Facebook is about the worst thing you could do. I saw some awful post and then promptly closed my account. I didn't want to torture myself anymore; don't torture yourself anymore, stop looking on Facebook. As far as wanting to work on things and then going to a party, it seems like he is cake eating. Why should he not go to the party? He knows you aren't going anywhere anyway right? I know it's hard, but you have to start GAL. It is what will keep you focused on you and not on what he is doing.
