if he's similar to my WW its bc they are confused and tend to take the easy path when given options. I'd bet he's not even thinking that the two decisions are related (working on things and the party with OW) and very much at odds.
Go to the session on Thursday and see what shakes out of it. It's tough with a 1yr old, but find some time for yourself and try to clear your head. Easier said than done, but keep working on you and let him see what he's missing. I'm struggling with this right now but am encouraged by how strong a lot of the folks here have become. You can get there as well, and then you can teach me!
Stay strong!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
