thx for the responses...major GAL'ing with d7 last few days which was great and does play into what Surfer said about doing your thing and ignoring the spew
Yeah...got to move past it all. But I have been bullied in the past from her in terms of not DB;ing initially and basically excepting fault for many things and her for none
I do feel the need to "set the record straight" but yeah...what does it matter anyway? I do think deep inside she knows shes a cheater, wrong and has major issues. Why else would she continue to shoot arrows?
Its funny but it only bothers me in the realm of wanting her to realize her issues but I think they all (whether the H or W) have this "disease" and head in sand approach to their new lifestyle.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....