Did Not See It - But Should Have

[RDS]

My DB coach said I should be her friend. I was emotionally detached and generally negative towards my W the last few years of my marriage so being a friend is like a 180.

I figure helping her sell her knick·knacks is what a friend would do. She is living very frugal right now. Her living like she is doing is enough evidence to me she had to leave me to get away. She was desperate. If selling a few of her things gets her some extra money, then so be it.