Thanks JK, I appreciate it! So my W texts me today angry as all he11, talking about I don't help her with the rent. It's her apartment and to be fair I did tell her I would help some with the rent, and I did, I paid the 1st month's rent and half the security deposit. She didn't have to spend a dime. So when she asked me I said that I couldn't right now. So she goes on a tirade and during the tirade she says that she has wanted to talk and that I have been avoiding her. I sort of have actually, be a useful I don't know what else she would have to say to me. Anywho I only sent like 3 texts, one to tell her that I was doing everything I can, another to clarify the first one and a third telling her that I refuse to have a text argument. I am thinking about texting her to see if she wants to talk and if she doesn't then ok, at least it's not my fault. I tried to be an adult, not sure if it's pursuing but actually talking about our feelings would be a 180.