I think it's ok to buy some stuff as long as all the bills are paid. Pamper yourself a little, some nice clothes and a nice Cologne go a long way towards making you feel better. It's just superficial, but it makes a difference.

M:37 W:38
D:11,S:7,S:4
T:8, M:5
S:6/1/15 different beds
Physical Seperation 7/5/16
Startof NC 7/22/16