First post here...just starting to GAL and 180.

[Buxom]

Thanks so much superSara!
In the last two days, I'm not sure what I want entirely. I want my M yet not at all costs. I'm not wanting the rollercoaster and not to be codependent. Aside from that I'm getting more confused.

He's started being more consistent in behaviours and not texting as much, he's been home more and very accountable to where he is and what he's doing too. He asks me lots of questions, like where I've been, with whom and where did I get the flowers on the table. Lol. I have nothing to hide so I say but trying not to go overboard. I feel strongly that my responses are in aid of building foundations for trust. I like that he asks questions like this.

I should add that after asking last night, he has withdrawn, distant and in self protection mode. Wow, and we haven't even talked! I'm in for some quiet days, maybe, after we do talk. I will wait, I'm in no hurry.