I get the same feelings about STBX. She is still attractive but her attitude is not. I guess the more time goes by the more we will be able to heal and move on.
As far as stuff goes, I am sure it is hard to not buy things. I struggle when I don't have my boys with what to do with myself. Finances are even more crucial to track more than before.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...