Have been thinking about it. I'm off on sick leave right now so money is tight.

I get that it's hard for people to weigh in since every sitch is different. Ultimately, I will be the one doing and saying whatever I do. Just looking for other perspectives I have not thot of. smile
I have a hard time accepting the not talking thing since I really don't think I've been clear on my boundaries since many have dissolved over the past five years he's been MLC ing and whoring. I search myself daily for what I want and need. I read and re-read the recommended threads. I get the notion of things and still look to specifics. Thanks!!


Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again