Hi there - well firstly, if he doesn't raise it again with you, I wouldn't raise it with him. And if he does raise it, you may want to say something like - 'I don't want to share my bed with you whilst you're having inappropriate contact with another woman - that doesn't work for me.
Say it calmly and reasonably and then turn away and go about your day....
JMHO of course, but it sounds to me like he want to cake eat - ie: snuggle up with you, then covertly text OP or whatever too...
Hope this helps my friend
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